Question
 

When i unlock the doors with the remote of my sebring 2002 only the headlights flashes is that normal?
not the rear lights?

And the answer is...EVERY Mopar product I've had with remote locks only the headlights flash. You want different?

All my cars flashes in front and rear
​​​​​​ i though maybe a broken connector or so

There is usually a section in the owners manual that describes how to change what happens when the remote is activated (flashing lights, horn chirps, etc.). I would start there. If the lights don't flash when you think they should, make sure the bulbs are good.

My 2003 also flashes the headlights only

the manuel of the car (european)
says nothing how to program that
Can someone give me the info?

Keycodeing
 

Hello:
This is how to change the key-entry respons from the car: Using the german "Bedienungsanleitung"
Stay within 6M from the car
Press Unlock once. All doors are open, headligths are flashing twice and horn blasts.
To change this to NO respons from car: Press LOCK on the remote and hold 4 secs, press again, hold it for 4 secs,( not longer than 10 secs ), AND press TRUNK and let both go.
The horn will give a short blast and the lights flash.
If you want to eliminate horn blasting:
Press LOCK and hold 4 secs, press LOCK again hold it for 4 secs,( not longer than 10 secs ), AND press UNLOCK and let both go.

You can also completely stop the remote control.

I can copy and mail the manual if wished

that will be great thank you

Give mere a mailadresse on jan.nielsen@demax.dk.