i have a grand voyager 2003 deasle and im trying to find the radiator relay ive watched the youtube vidios but its not behind any headlights its not behind the grill and its not under the air box anyone any ideas its right hand drive

 

its on the crash bar behind the front grill its a silver thing that looks like a heat sink

 

not there

 

Here's what it looks like on a US spec van of your van's generation. Radiator on the left, grill on the right. No diesels in the US. No idea if it's the same as yours: http://img130.imageshack.us/img130/5...anrelayob8.gif

Try following the wire harness at the fan connection to the first box it comes to.