Its behind the driver side bumper
Its your choice U can get a correct diog and fix it from there or guess and spend money on parts that U might not need.

 

There ya go

 

We r having to do the work ourselfs as the nearest dealer is over an hour away and no auto electrician wil help as no one over here seems to know anything about the car. My other half is a mechanic so knows a little bit but all stil very new to him when it comes to electrics. All the help u have given has been helpful so far. He is goin to take the bumper off today and try get into see the tcm and also said he sees a relay too which is same place so wil look at that too. Anymore help u have which u think may help would b most appreciated

 

Hi just a quick update. We had the tcm ecu tested and turns out we need a new one which is causing a tough task as here in uk they r hard to get hold of. Any ideas would b very helpful :-)