I have a 2010 4.0, every once in awhile engine shuts off,hard to steer,some say fuel pump relay but my fuse box does not list a fuel pump relay,if someone could tell me which number or what it says ,thanks for any help 83 years old don't need these problems,sorry I bought it 8 month ago

 

most newer cars with a tipm will not have a relay its built into the fuse box

 

Does the engine restart immediately, for example, slip trans into neutral and restart? What are the conditions when the engine dies, stopped, city/urban start/stop conditions, highway driving?

How often does this occur, every trip, every other trip, multiple times during a trip?

If the fuel pump shuts off while driving, there is still pressure in the system and the engine will usually begin to sputter as the fuel pressure drops. If the engine simply dies I would not suspect the fuel pump or relay at this time.