Ok, using alfaobd I finally figured out how to enable uconnect on my Aspen ( it already has the Bluetooth hands free module installed ). On alfaobd you will select Radio. Then select control unit - Radio Nav module my 2008-09 var2 non-powernet, ( this had me confused as I thought that this meant the radio had to have navigation which it does not need to have ). Then press Connect on the next screen to let alfaobd connect to the radio module. Then press the car image at the bottom to get to the next set of menus. Under Procedure to start - select Mode Selection then select under option HFM. Press start to let alfaobd write this info. After that you should be able to press the vr or phone button to access the uconnect features on your radio.... I had scoured the web trying to find this out when I thought what the heck let me see what comes up under that radio option... Hope this helps out others..